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How To Deal With A Breakup - Control Your Emotions

by breakupdoctor (5/16/10) 481 views

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ For argument’s sake, lets say the breakup just happened. I’m not sure if that’s the case with you, but lets just say that it did. What’s your next move? Obviously, the natural instinct is to make contact with your ex, and start the process of getting back together with them. So, you go to the phone with your emotions on your sleeve, ready to tell them how big of a mistake this is, and how desperately you want them back. I’m sure you can see what may be wrong with this strategy, could you not?
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Getting Over A Breakup By Writing Down Your Emotions

by breakupdoctor (5/9/10) 251 views

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ Ok, I understand this may be a little touchy-feely for some people, especially for some of you guys out there. I could imagine how many guys rolled there eyes when they hear something like that, but its a great way to release some of those heart wrenching feelings you may be having. Remember we have to think outside the box. If we did the same thing that the vast majority of people do after a breakup, you would be having a much harder time getting over all of this. Just get a basic notebook, and when you are suddenly getting a feeling of great anxiety, anger,depression, or whatever it may be, just grab the notebook, and start writing. Write down the feeling that you are having and get into the specifics of why you are feeling this way. It could be something as sappy, as like hearing a song that reminds you of your ex. It doesn’t matter. Write it down.
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Getting Over Your Ex With A Little Help From Your Friends

by breakupdoctor (5/6/10) 20 views

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ Obviously the harsh reality of getting over your ex is very tough. Its even tougher if you are doing it all alone. After the breakup there can be a little too much inner dialog between you and your brain. It’s not unhealthy talking to yourself, but it is if you are just obsessed over the break up. You need somebody that you can vent with. That’s just one of the many great things about having friends at a time such as this. You do need somebody to console and support you, and tell you everything is going to be ok. But even more importantly, you need friends to take your mind off of the breakup. This is what’s crucial.
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01:43

Getting Back With My Ex - The Second Date

by breakupdoctor (5/3/10) 319 views

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ Hopefully, you handled the first date really well, so it looks like there is a good chance of getting a second date. So what’s the plan for that? First off, don’t rush into anything. Winning back your ex is like a marathon, not a sprint. Keep with the idea of taking things nice and slow. You don’t want to frazzle them by being overly aggressive. Let them breathe a little. Your ex might just get in touch with you before you even call them. If that’s the case, Great! Just go with it. If not, call them in a week or so. When you call them, act in the same manner you did in the first time: Friendly, confident, nice and light. This time, though instead of coffee, do something a little more fun. It will take a little less pressure off of you.
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Getting Back With An Ex - First Date With Your Ex

by breakupdoctor (5/2/10) 201 views

Alright, so you’ve got your first date back with your ex again. Technically its not really a date. It should be something very casual, like grabbing a cup of coffee or something like that. It shouldn’t be dinner and a movie. So how should you behave in this situation? Pretty much the same exact way you handled the phone call to go on this date. You’ve got to be relaxed and you’ve got to be confident. That’s always going to be a winning formula. At all costs, when you go on your date, don’t talk about the relationship, and what went wrong. It will only lead to more arguments, which will only regress the relationship, and that’s not what you want.
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Getting an Ex Back - The First Phone Call Back

by breakupdoctor (5/1/10) 315 views

http://win-over-your-ex.info/ Ok, hopefully you’ve got the confidence that is needed in order to get an ex back. So with that confidence, you must now start taking some action. That all starts with making your first real contact with your ex after the breakup. How do you go about handling this? You want to keep this very light, at almost a friendship level. Give them a call, and when you do, be very casual about it. The basic gist is that you just want to “hang out”. It’s nothing serious and certainly nothing romantic. The whole basis of the meeting is to catch a little spark that you once had, which could lead to you winning back your ex, and not to start up again where you left off, after the breakup. Before the call, you may be a little anxious, try to be conscious of that. You don’t want to have an ounce of desperation in your voice.
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01:38

Get Back With Your Ex By Playing It Cool

by breakupdoctor (4/30/10) 323 views

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ It is very important that you turn this irrational human being that you are right now into a cool, calm, and collected individual. First off, you need to accept the breakup. Don’t worry, this isn’t the end of the world, even though it may feel like it. Just think of it like this. A break up is sometimes the best thing that could ever happen to a relationship. I’m sure you must know some couples that have gotten along a whole lot better after they took a break from each other. So just keep that as your motivation, if you get that sudden urge to give your ex a call. It may seem like the right thing to do, but remember you are on a break. Let your emotions heal. It will be a cathartic experience for you, and you’ll be a better person because of it.
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Get Back With My Ex - Get Your Confidence Back

by breakupdoctor (4/24/10) 230 views

Hopefully you have taken all the important steps that were needed to be taken during the cooling off period of the breakup. Now its time to work on your strategy of how to actually get back with your ex. The is the part where you have to do an internal audit of your emotions. Hopefully after the cooling off period, the both of you are in a different, more calm frame of mind. Lets look at you. How are you feeling compared to when you first broke up? You should be feeling less angry and hurt, and more level headed and confident. Instead of having that feeling of “I can’t live without them” that you had during the initial stages of the breakup. You should now have a feeling of “It would be nice to get back together with them, but if it doesn’t work out, I know I’ll be fine.”
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Back Together With An Ex - How To Handle Tension

by breakupdoctor (4/22/10) 211 views

It’s normal when you first get back together with an ex that tensions arise. Even though when you see them again, the last thing you should want to be doing is rehashing the past. But that doesn’t necessarily mean your ex doesn’t want to talk about the subject. They might have a lot of things to get off their chest. So what you have to do is let them. The important thing is not to get defensive about this. I’m sure you may have very strong feelings on the subject at hand, but its better not to engage in an argument. Whatever it is you are feeling, just smile politely and let them say what they have to say.
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Should I Date While Coping With A Breakup?

by breakupdoctor (4/21/10) 2 views

http://www.win-over-your-ex.info/ Making the decision to date other people while you are still coping with your breakup? Yes or No? Well…. not only is it recommended but it can definitely increase your chances of getting back with your ex. It’s a very powerful tool you can use in your arsenal. Think about what this says to your ex, if they ever hear about this. It shows to them that you have moved on. Even though on the inside you may still be very much in love with your ex, on the outside, you are the epitome of confidence. You don’t think that would attract your ex? But let’s say that your ex wouldn’t even know about this date, should you still go? ABSOLUTELY!!