Parenting is more difficult than making either atom bomb or space station. I don't believe that any formula works. It can't be taught. You should know certain basic principles of parenting and use few of them according to your wisdom and commonsense. Each situation requires application of hundred of factors in dynamic combination. Trillions of parent-child interaction ...s happening in universe of parent child relationship, no two of them are
same. Don't expect any theory of raising child to work. Some of the virtures required, I am elaborating on it.

ABOUT BEHAVIORAL PROBLEMS
Behavioral problems in children are outcome of three factors. Genetic predisposition, child rearing practices, social and school environment. Child + nature + nurture + society = behavior of child. So, we can see that child is no way responsible for his behavior. We each have the kind of children we deserve. If there is anything we wish to change in the child, we should first examine it and see whether it is not something that could better be hanged in ourselves. Someday, maybe, there will exist a well-informed, well considered and yet fervent public conviction that the most deadly of all possible sins is the mutilation of a child's spirit. A hundred years from now it will not matter what my bank account was, the sort of house I lived in, or the kind of car I drove...but the world may be different because I was important in the life of a child.