Hot Girl

I agree 100% with ya, beauty goes far beyond outward appearance, alot of my friends have tried to "convince" me to go for all these hot and most time annoying girls that they run after while I prefer to get to know someone whether there is an instant attraction or not and see what happens from there.

hte more physically attracted to a girl your guy friend is, the longer it'd last? No offense Val, but that's a load of bull poop.
If one is looking for only physical attraction, what's the use of a relationship? When one can love another for what's inside of them do they truly see the others natural beauty.
To be superficial sounding as your guy friend sounded... it doesn't paint him a pretty picture.

Val!! that is soooo true.
the deeper and more meaning ful connection you have with a person on the inside.. does make them more attractive in you're eyes on the outside. (:
unbelievable painting. and that 'there's my lip stick' thing made me laugh out loud!!

How About if i want you?

After 19 years of marriage, my wife is definitely "hot!"

"In other words, you can't talk about objective and rational when we are talking about instinct and feelings. "

i agree totally, thats why its not the truth :/

logic observation is if you vallue external things it becomes like a drugs you want more, in the begin you feel good but like every drugs you get addicted and it go's down

I dated someone who I was not physically attracted to at all.
Within a couple months, she was still not any physically "hotter" ...
... but our connection, and our communication, and our fun, our flirting, our companionship, our intimacy, our travels, our romance ... became smokin' "hot"!
Then she had to move 2000 miles away. :(

Gosh Val I so Agree with you.
Been through the same thing :)

val he don't sound like a very nice guy infact he sounds like a complete idiot Loser! Love the painting as always

hi val, this is just not a 'guy thing', as i think i am fairly attractive but was turned down by a couple females becasue they wanted someone with hair on the head. I do have hair but i chose to shave (and most girls dig it). Ok, about my hangups> i too must be attracted physically before i will commit to a 'g/f b/f' relationship. I have a lot of female friends that i love dearly, but i am not attracted to them. It's great to have the 'friend' option. *AND NOT with benefits.
Choice is great!

the shoe analogy was good, but who throws away a pair of old comfy shoe's just because they don't look brand new anymore. Plus some of the best looking shoe's are the least comfortable to wear, or live with.......

The male is the hunter/gatherer of the tribe. It's a role that relies heavily on the sense of sight and therefore his arousal responses developed accordingly.

In the bible it says God created heaven and earth and SAW that it was good. He didn't feel it had a nice personality.

I want you, val! I love your accent and think you're so adorable! You make my mondays (Can't watch on sundays) so much better!

sounds like a shallow guy... don't worry about him. Not all of us are like that! :S

you´re right. Beauty doesn´t really matter to me but over a period I saw styles and impressions of people that can tell you how they are.
Inner beauty is only visible if you take a moment to look at it.