This was created to help some people out there, these settings worked for me.
the most important ones are encryption, and the advanced settings i shown. the rest can be messed around with.
I'm also very tired.. i'm clicking the upload button and going to bed. Also to foward your port on your router, that is extremely important i would suggest looking it up.
*important* - if your running through a router the advanced setting Net bind ip might be diffrent. theres no problem toying around with it though.
Contact me if you have further questions